{"id":9201,"date":"2026-09-30T17:32:30","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T15:32:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imagocertificationandtraining.com\/courses\/couples-who-undo-you\/"},"modified":"2026-10-01T03:08:43","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T01:08:43","slug":"couples-who-undo-you","status":"publish","type":"imago-courses","link":"https:\/\/imagocertificationandtraining.com\/es\/courses\/couples-who-undo-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Couples Who Undo You (online, free webinar)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

There’s a particular kind of stuck when you’re with a couple \u2014 or an individual talking through their relationship challenges: you’re out of moves, out of questions, quietly wondering if you’re even cut out for this work. That feeling may have a name \u2014 the Impostor Phenomenon \u2014 and it shows up more in couples work than almost anywhere else. In three hours, we’ll explore the why, maybe even trace it back to its origins, and give you a pathway out of the dynamic \u2014 to level up your couples work, or find a reason to start seeing couples for the first time.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bonus: understand why your own romantic partnership can challenge you in similar ways. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning Objectives<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Define the Impostor Phenomenon and identify two potential clinical expressions in relationship work.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Describe the potential origins of the Impostor Phenomenon in couples therapists, including childhood parentification.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Apply at least two concrete in-session strategies for returning responsibility to the couple and interrupting the dynamic.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Understand a Relational Paradigm as a new way to see what is happening the Space-Between a couple.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Reference list<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Boszormenyi-Nagy, I., & Spark, G. M. (1973). Invisible Loyalties: Reciprocity in Intergenerational Family Therapy.<\/em> Harper & Row. (Routledge reprint editions available.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Bowen, M. (1978). Family Therapy in Clinical Practice.<\/em> Jason Aronson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Byng-Hall, J. (2002). Relieving parentified children’s burdens in families with insecure attachment patterns. Family Process, 41<\/em>(3), 375\u2013388.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Clance, P. R., & Imes, S. A. (1978). The imposter phenomenon in high achieving women: Dynamics and therapeutic intervention. Psychotherapy: Theory, Research & Practice, 15<\/em>(3), 241\u2013247.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Hendrix, H. & Hendrix H. L. (2021) Doing Imago Relationship Therapy in the Space-Between<\/em>. W.W. Norton Press. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Hooper, L. M. (2007). The application of attachment theory and family systems theory to the phenomena of parentification. The Family Journal, 15<\/em>(3), 217\u2013223.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jung, C. G. (1951\/1966). Fundamental questions of psychotherapy. In Collected Works, Vol. 16: The Practice of Psychotherapy<\/em> (2nd ed.). Princeton University Press.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jurkovic, G. J. (1997). Lost Childhoods: The Plight of the Parentified Child.<\/em> Brunner\/Mazel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Love, P. (1991) the Emotional Incest syndrome. Bantam. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Minuchin, S. (1974). Families and Family Therapy.<\/em> Harvard University Press.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Sedgwick, D. (1994). The Wounded Healer: Countertransference from a Jungian Perspective.<\/em> Routledge.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":220,"featured_media":9223,"template":"","imago-course-cat":[],"class_list":["post-9201","imago-courses","type-imago-courses","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\nCouples Who Undo You (online, free webinar) - Imago International Training Institute<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/imagocertificationandtraining.com\/es\/courses\/couples-who-undo-you\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Couples Who Undo You (online, free webinar) - Imago International Training Institute\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"There’s a particular kind of stuck when you’re with a couple \u2014 or an individual talking through their relationship challenges: you’re out of moves, out of questions, quietly wondering if you’re even cut out for this work. 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